One More Hour Until 42…

Okay, by the time I finish writing out this post, there won’t even be an hour left until my birthday!  🙂

The past couple of days have been different compared to those in other years (just prior to the b-day).  There have been cards in the mailbox (even one from one of my brothers!!), gifts in the mail and had a phone call yesterday from a friend, calling from the Crocs shop in town to ask what color I like.  (Guess I’ll be getting a pair of shoes from him!)  Even had a “sort-of” b-day present from WordPress… had a notice that I’ve received my 50th “like”!  Yay!!  🙂

So, what is it about age that some people have a problem with?  One female acquaintance smiled at me today and said, “You’ll be turning 20 tomorrow, right?”  I smiled right back and replied proudly, “No, I’ll be 42.”

You could not PAY me to go back to being 20 or any part of my 20’s.  I lived it and survived it… thought that turning 20 would make me an adult and that I would know all the secrets of life.  (Was also eager to be getting married at 21.)  But my 20’s taught me that I was FAR from being grown-up and by 30, I realized I knew very little about myself much less all the secrets of life.

My 30’s included a divorce and a newly single life (for a while), blind dates, a relationship with a guy which probably lasted longer than it should have, and lots of time for self-discovery.  Year by year, life became better.  Things became clearer.

And my 40’s?  So far, they have been wonderful!!  Growing older is awesome, you know?  Sure, I still have LOTS of questions about life and death and relationships and love… but I’m not desperate to find the answers any more.  If an answer is found, that’s great.  If it continues to elude me, it’s not the end of the world.  🙂

Guess there’s only been one downfall to getting older and that’s losing those I hold dear to my heart.  It’s part of living though, isn’t it?  And even if it’s heartbreaking, I feel grateful for living and having the opportunity to meet and know and love the special people in my life.

Well, 20 minutes and counting… am looking forward to what year #42 has in store for me!  🙂


4 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Stephanie Bennis
    Mar 30, 2012 @ 23:47:27

    What a great attitude to have…and happy birthday!


    • Birdie
      Apr 04, 2012 @ 23:39:48

      Thank you… and thank you! I do try my best to have a positive attitude about it all… really have to thank my parents for the way I am! 🙂

      Thank you also for the comment and the “like”! Am looking forward to reading your posts. 🙂


  2. TrishaDM
    Apr 03, 2012 @ 05:26:14

    Happy Belated Birthday!

    I really like what I have been reading on your blog and nominated you for the Sunshine Award. For more info, check out my post here:


    • Birdie
      Apr 09, 2012 @ 22:50:15

      Thank you so much for the b-day wishes… and for the nomination! (I wrote to you regarding it on your post.)

      Hope all is well with you! I haven’t had much time to write my own posts, but always make the time to read yours! 🙂


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